Friends after Marriage

They said "friendship forever"..but until now I still don't see how can we be friends forever because we often change friends and it's really hard to find the so called 'best friends'.

Like it or not, after we get marriage our 'single' friends will be gone one by one, they will automatically exclude us just because we're already married..some friends will hang on for a while but after they get more excitement from others activity then we'll be a second priority.

So, don't be angry, disappointed or sad because some 'single' friends cancel your appointment on last minutes, exclude you from fun activities that you could do together, etc..well, that's life we choose, that's a risk of being married people and that's why a marriage life called a new life.

A new life always includes new friends, loosing some friends means we'll get more friends..and friendship after marriage will be much different than when we're still single..It's a part of God's plan to make us see that life is not boring and we will get new experiences when we reach some level..the one who brave enough to make a decision in life and change courses in life will see the world in new perspective..and for that I hope I will be much wiser everyday in my life.